Happy Valentine’s Day my lovelies!!!!
I wish much love, romance, and sex today (and everyday) for all my ladies out there. Easy when you’re coupled up, but what about if you’re single? Should you sulk and wonder why you’re all alone on this day? No ma’am. You can enjoy Valentine’s Day if you’re single and I’ll show you how.
I have a friend who will literally hide on Valentine’s Day if she doesn’t have a boyfriend at the time. I mean, she will stay in the house and will avoid people at all cost. If she needs to run errands, she will do them the day before or the day after.
She’s deathly afraid of being seen alone on Valentine’s Day.
Crazy? Maybe, but how many of you single ladies sit home and sulk when Valentine’s Day roll around and there’s no man in sight? Yeah, probably quite a few of you. In fact, I used to do that myself. I would stay home and wonder why I was single on this national day of love.
Then I grew up.
So what, if I didn’t have a man on Valentine’s Day? I know what’s it’s like to have one on this day and let me tell you, it’s overrated.
I no longer sit at home feeling sorry for myself on Valentine’s Day. In fact, I feel sorry for the man who is not blessed to have me in his life. ‘Cause boy he’s sure missing out.
So what does a single gal do on this day of love?
Live life.
When I’m single, I do me. I do whatever the hell I feel like doing. I don’t hide. I don’t sit up in the house (unless I want to), I just live life.
So, here are a few tips on what to do with yourself if you don’t have a man for Valentine’s Day and you’re single this year.
How to Enjoy Valentine’s Day When You’re Single
Stay Home
If you decide to stay at home, order your favorite, most delicious dish. You’re only buying for one, so go ahead and splurge. I love seafood, so this is the time I order something I don’t eat often (can anyone say baked crab cakes).
Get your favorite bottle of wine, because you don’t have to worry about someone else’s taste in alcohol. This is also the best time to watch chick flicks such as, [easyazon_link identifier=”B005KL3R6I” locale=”US” tag=”onesmartsista-20″]Bridesmaids[/easyazon_link], [easyazon_link identifier=”B002ZG99UE” locale=”US” tag=”onesmartsista-20″]Valentine’s Day[/easyazon_link], or [easyazon_link identifier=”B00164KYV4″ locale=”US” tag=”onesmartsista-20″]He’s Just Not That Into You[/easyazon_link].
Hang Out With Friends
I’m sure you’re not the only single person in your social circle (even if it seems like it), so grab a few of your girlfriends and hit the hottest club. Get that sexy dress and wear that slutty red lipstick you’re embarrassed to wear most days (but look oh so good in) and party your heart out. Not only will you have the time of your life, but you’ll probably catch the eye of that hottie who is single too.
Go Solo and Do Your Thang
If the party scene isn’t your thing, then get out and do something that you’ve always wanted to do, but couldn’t find anyone to do it with. I’m a history buff, but most of my friends aren’t. So, this is the time that I will go to a museum or hit a seminar no one but me wants to attend. Not only is this a great time to relish in your hobby, but it may be the place where you meet a like-minded someone.
Being single on Valentine’s Day is not a death sentence. You can still enjoy the day. Just think of Valentine’s Day as another commercialized holiday where jewelry and candy stores benefit financially. You are complete, you are whole, with or without a man.
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