Comments on: 7 Ways to Cope When He Disappears from Your Life

By: Shay

Shay — Mon, 31 Oct 2022 02:03:43 +0000

Abby,
You need to forgive yourself. You have to move on from the situation and work on healing yourself. Before you worry about a man, you may need to look inward as to why you drank to the point of passing out. Were you nervous? Do you have a drinking problem? Whatever it is, deal with that first.

As for him ghosting you, do not contact him anymore. Unfortunately, he wasn’t being mature by not letting you know why it wasn’t going to work for him. Even though he’s old enough to know better, it seems like you dodged a bullet.

Good luck to you.

Shay

By: Abby Zdun

Abby Zdun — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 12:55:59 +0000

Thank you for your response to my situation, l really do appreciate it..
Excuse some of spelling, l typed up his up with a heavy heart….
I hope to hear from you again!
Blessings,
Abby

By: Abby Zdun

Abby Zdun — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 02:34:27 +0000

In reply to Abby Zdunczyk. Please give your input thanks!

By: Abby Zdunczyk

Abby Zdunczyk — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 02:33:00 +0000

Thank you for input, l did blank out because l had Two glasses to many and not
enough water and bread, before l drank the wine…l really did like this guy, but
I as so embarrassed l didn’t say anything to him the next morning…He just stared at me with a discussed look, if looks could kill l be gone! I rush him
Out of my condo in the morning, because l was spooo devastated by it all and
he said nothing to me, except he ask me how my head was!
I tried to call, text, and -e-mal him to say l was sorry and I never happen before
and could we talk about on a mature level, after all this guy is 76 years old…
He completely ignored all the reaching out that l tried to do…
What do you think of that, thank you so much for your input…
Abby

By: Shay

Shay — Sun, 09 Oct 2022 20:50:34 +0000

In reply to Abby zdun.

Abby,
I don’t understand what happened. Did you black out because of the wine or do you think something was put in your drink? Since you said that this never happened to you before, you may have to consider that this was a possibility. If so, I am so sorry. Unfortunately, men will ghost you for no particular reason. Either they are no longer interested or they are with someone else. The only thing you can do is just try to move on from the situation. I know it hurts, but this may be a blessing in disguise. Healthy and emotionally mature men will not treat the woman they are in a relationship with like this. He’s not the one and you are probably much better off. Good luck to you and your healing.
Shay

By: Abby zdun

Abby zdun — Sat, 24 Sep 2022 17:03:58 +0000

I was with a man who l really cared for 2 months and one night we came back to my condo and l had to much wine and blanked out for the evening…T hat never happen to me before and l don’t remember the evening…The next morning l got up and was in shock of what happen..The man l really liked why
so mad at me and disgusted, l could even say anything to him to apologize and he just Ed stared at me in anger…So when to his cat got in and just said in a angered voice how was my head! Then from that day forward he ghosted me..
I was so heartbroken l tried repeatedly to get in touch, text email, & call no
Response….should l try again he did even discuss anything with me, that’s
What couples do, they have work together nothing goes smoothly

By: Mark Larson

Mark Larson — Sun, 11 Jul 2021 15:25:58 +0000

Why do men disappear from your life….there is only three real main reasons, but i’ll post 4 here as 2 are one in the same.
1. He has his woman, another woman. (he just won’t admit it)
2. The sex was not worth the aggravation, time or money being spent. (see number 4 too)
3. He enjoys being alone more then being together living with someone else. (he just won’t admit it)
4. He sensed you weren’t “with him” and pushed him away or denied him intimacy when he needed you the most…it’s a deal breaker for a man seeking a good woman that’s there for him…bed down time is ultra important to a man…deny him and you crush him. Men really do feel like when they spend time, energies and money taking care of your needs and then abandon him (to ignore, denied, or worse laugh off) in his needs (for sex-release)….it’s an instant secured Disappearing Act. If you laugh off a man’s needs for sex labeling it his problem or that he’s abnormal….you can bet that’s the end of everything.

By: onesmartsista

onesmartsista — Sun, 06 Jun 2021 03:52:22 +0000

In reply to Philippa. Pain is normal and you will have to go through the grieving process of your marriage. If your marriage is able to be saved, then you both should try couple's counseling. If not, you need to go by yourself to start healing. You will also need to get a custody and visitation agreement during your separation. If he can come and see the kids, then he should be able to take them for a few hours, so you can have some alone time. Now is the time to do what you need to do to build a different life for you and the kids. Good luck.

By: Philippa

Philippa — Thu, 03 Jun 2021 14:40:23 +0000

I will try and use some of these, I just can’t as mine is my husband and we have children together. I feel so overwhelmed with pain I am exhausted. My children are young so there’s lots of contact with him still despite him moving out. I really didn’t see it coming. Some days I can’t function at all – so then there’s added parental guilt and I teach so I never get a second to grieve let alone enjoy myself again. I still love him so much. I honestly don’t know how people handle this without totally imploding. Any extra ideas to cope would be welcomed whatever they are

By: nina

nina — Fri, 26 Jun 2020 05:47:19 +0000

wow i literally just got ghosted and it hurts…i didn’t do anything wrong…i honestly thought he was the actual “one”….i dropped people i was talking to that was genuinely interested in me…but my connection with him was so strong and real to me that i told the other two people that i met someone whom i really want to give all my attention to..i didn’t ghost them i was honest with them…..i did the right thing…and i told him about it…he said he appreciated it and that he respected me and that he had no intentions in hurting me….i believed every word he said…….i am just heart broken…i can not believe he would just disappear and ghost me…no explanation…nothing..he took me off all social media like i never existed and blocked me from everything…..it’s a hurtful thing to do to someone…i hope he does not make this a habit with others it’s so hurtful. i know that it is not me…i know my worth…i won’t let his actions break me but it did hurt. and i will give myself time to heal. at the end of the day he did not choose me so i was not the one for him…and it is something that is hard to grasp but it’s reality and sometimes people just do what they do…and nothing you can do it from it…just keep loving and keep being you…you are all beautiful and worth that love we all crave and deserve.