Many times, women tend to stay in relationships that have been long dead. There are a variety of reasons why women stay with a man that is not worthy of their time and attention.
Maybe it’s financial or maybe they’re just lonely. Either way, I’m here to give you 5 signs the relationship is over (even if you don’t know it yet).
1. You don’t love him anymore.
Every relationship goes through a slump, but if you envision a happy future without your man around, then it’s time to leave. Everyone deserves love in their lives.
They deserve to love and to be loved by someone who will be there for them. If looking at your mate brings nothing but feelings of regret or anger, it’s time to push on.
2. You’re not intimate.
Busy schedules often get in the way of romance, but if you can count the number of weeks (or yikes months) where you and your honey have been intimate, your relationship is sinking.
You could get the same affection from the barista at Starbucks, so why continue to lay in bed with someone you’re not getting it on with?
Intimacy is a very important part of a relationship. It is the one thing that can break up a marriage and pull two people further apart.
No one’s that busy. If neither one of you is attracted to the other enough to want to have sex, this situation is a waste of time.
3. One or both of you have cheated.
I am a true believer that “once a cheater, always a cheater”.
Of course, there are exceptions to the rule, however, when someone feels that they have to step out of their relationship to become intimate with another person, the bonds of trust have been broken.
If he’s cheating on you, why are you turning a blind eye?
He’s telling you he wants out of the relationship. Do him a favor and let him go. If you’re the one hitting the sheets with someone else, then you have to ask yourself if the drama is worth it.
It’s evident you want to be with someone else, so go and be with someone else. Do so quickly before you become pregnant, or worse.
4. He doesn’t meet your needs anymore.
People form relationships for companionship. If your man is never home or hardly spends any quality time with you, then he doesn’t want to be with you.
Point blank.
He’s sitting by waiting for you to let him go.
If you come home from a hard day at work and he doesn’t even want to spend the time to hear about your day, what do you need him for?
5. You’re only with him for convenience.
If he didn’t pay half your rent or drive you to work every day, would you still be with him?
If the answer is no, then you’re a user.
You are sacrificing your heart so that you can live comfortably in a house you can’t afford on your own, or you hate being alone. If so, you must end this relationship now.
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- How to Get Over a Broken Heart here.
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- What It Means When He Doesn’t Call
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