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Comment on What It Means When He Doesn’t Call by onesosmartsista

onesosmartsista — Tue, 22 Oct 2024 15:17:22 +0000

Hey!!! First of all, you are worthy of love and attention.

I expect a man that is interested in me to call regularly and to take me out on dates. If he doesn’t, I’m going to assume he’s not that interested in me. I deserve attention and affection. I don’t give my attention, time, or heart to someone who can’t or won’t even do the bare minimum.

You shouldn’t either.

Comment on What It Means When He Doesn’t Call by Kimberly Ade

Kimberly Ade — Mon, 16 Sep 2024 02:22:22 +0000

I started seeing this guy for a month and 3 weeks now, He wants to be in a relationship with me and want to take it slow. I said that was fine by me but I have one problem with him, He doesn’t call or text me he always says his busy with work and school which I understand. We would go for 3 days to a week no call or chat from him when I try to call him it doesn’t go through and when I text, he doesn’t reply . He text me whenever he feels like and apologise for not communicating with me he would say he misses me. We have never gone on an official date, he always say something like his tired and not feeling well and I end up going to his place . I try initiating conversations with him wanting to know more about him but he always keeps it short and say his not much of a talker. How do I know if he is into me or playing me ?

Comment on How Long Should You Wait for Him to Commit by Kris

Kris — Thu, 18 Apr 2024 09:57:28 +0000

That’s a great article! I have a question though. I’ve been chatting into a guy via message for one and a half months (he lives interstate). Early on I asked him if he wants family and he said “I haven’t thought of that; I think meeting the right person would answer those big questions I have about family and the future ”. So we kept chatting and met face to face for the first time after chatting for almost two months. The meet up was good in some parts but also awkward (he asked me how much I pay for my place and how much some house hold items costed me; felt really strange and he didn’t really ask many questions to get to know me but he said he is a quiet person). He seemed a bit distant in body language (would often face another way) and hasn’t initiated a hug nor kiss. The goodbye was strange too because I gave him an hug and he said “see you around” and went on his way. After this date, he messaged saying he wants to see me again and I replied that I’d like it too. Since I’ve only been pursuing him as romantic interest, I wanted more certainty where we are at so said I need to know that this is heading somewhere. He replied vaguely saying he doesn’t want to be exclusive until we see each other again – “which will hopefully be soon”. Am I asking too much too soon? I guess I am not getting any certainty. His comment about family is a bit unclear, he is deciding if he likes me plus he lives far away so we can’t meet regularly.
Normally, I can tell when a guy is into me as he would text frequently and always find a reason to see me. Here, I can’t tell. He has been taking it very slow (for my liking) and it’s really hard to decipher his intentions even if he says he is attracted and interested.

Comment on What It Means When He Doesn’t Call by Emmanuella

Emmanuella — Mon, 15 Jan 2024 22:40:33 +0000

In reply to Nancy.

My boyfriend called and I didn’t pick later I posted on my page
I called him later after he shouted at me to get off his phone and hung up on me
What should I do

Comment on What It Means When He Doesn’t Call by Marie

Marie — Mon, 19 Jun 2023 11:03:23 +0000

In reply to onesmartsista. Excellent reply! It’s so true women want closure but men often want the opportunity to come back at a later stage. Thank you

Comment on What It Means When He Doesn’t Call by Shay

Shay — Mon, 19 Jun 2023 01:54:27 +0000

In reply to Grace Mwanyiro.

An extreme change in communication can signal a red flag in a relationship. It’s a little difficult to gauge in your situation if there’s an issue, simply because your boyfriend is in the military. I’m not sure if he’s overseas or on base…he could just be busy. He could have also lost interest or is talking to someone else. I would have a conversation with him and express how you’re feeling and your expectations with communication going forth. If he doesn’t respond or change, I would move on. Good luck to you.

Comment on What It Means When He Doesn’t Call by Grace Mwanyiro

Grace Mwanyiro — Fri, 16 Jun 2023 16:29:48 +0000

I have a boyfriend he’s in the military starting our relationship he used to call me everyday, before work and text but now it’s almost two years in our relationship the communication has gone down last week he came home for his break he started calling me we even met and had fun after we parted we talked and I thought we were okay. But then he didn’t call and I called and texted for three days and now he just texted, didn’t explain anything just said it’s fine as if I was just overreacting he didn’t even explain anything.

Comment on How Long Should You Wait for Him to Commit by Shay

Shay — Fri, 02 Jun 2023 03:21:13 +0000

In reply to Thomasine. Depression is real and I'm so sorry you had to suffer for so long. I pray that you have finally found peace and now believe that you are worthy of mutual love and respect in a relationship and definitely a marriage. I am also happy to know that you have started dating again and met a man you love and care about. This is good practice for finding your future husband. Unfortunately, this guy is not the man for you. If you want to get married and he does not, then he is not meant for you. Period.

Comment on How Long Should You Wait for Him to Commit by Thomasine

Thomasine — Thu, 01 Jun 2023 00:15:46 +0000

Married at age 27 in 1990. What I didn’t know was my husband had a brand new baby and another on the way. He cheated the whole time we were married. I became pregnant 1992. After giving birth in Aug he left me Jan 1993. I was depressed for over 15 years. I didn’t want another relationship. In 2015 I bumped into an old friend and now we are dating. He doesn’t want to get married but I do. He has been the best man I have ever known. I’m sick about this. I had nothing before.