Comments on: What It Means When He Doesn’t Call https://onesmartsista.com/what-it-means-when-he-doesnt-call/ The Smart Guide to Love, Dating, and Relationships Tue, 22 Oct 2024 15:17:22 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.3 By: onesosmartsista https://onesmartsista.com/what-it-means-when-he-doesnt-call/#comment-4634 Tue, 22 Oct 2024 15:17:22 +0000 http://www.onesmartsista.com/?p=362#comment-4634 In reply to Kimberly Ade.

Hey!!! First of all, you are worthy of love and attention.

I expect a man that is interested in me to call regularly and to take me out on dates. If he doesn’t, I’m going to assume he’s not that interested in me. I deserve attention and affection. I don’t give my attention, time, or heart to someone who can’t or won’t even do the bare minimum.

You shouldn’t either.

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By: Kimberly Ade https://onesmartsista.com/what-it-means-when-he-doesnt-call/#comment-4149 Mon, 16 Sep 2024 02:22:22 +0000 http://www.onesmartsista.com/?p=362#comment-4149 I started seeing this guy for a month and 3 weeks now, He wants to be in a relationship with me and want to take it slow. I said that was fine by me but I have one problem with him, He doesn’t call or text me he always says his busy with work and school which I understand. We would go for 3 days to a week no call or chat from him when I try to call him it doesn’t go through and when I text, he doesn’t reply . He text me whenever he feels like and apologise for not communicating with me he would say he misses me. We have never gone on an official date, he always say something like his tired and not feeling well and I end up going to his place . I try initiating conversations with him wanting to know more about him but he always keeps it short and say his not much of a talker. How do I know if he is into me or playing me ?

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By: Emmanuella https://onesmartsista.com/what-it-means-when-he-doesnt-call/#comment-1049 Mon, 15 Jan 2024 22:40:33 +0000 http://www.onesmartsista.com/?p=362#comment-1049 In reply to Nancy.

My boyfriend called and I didn’t pick later I posted on my page
I called him later after he shouted at me to get off his phone and hung up on me
What should I do

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By: Marie https://onesmartsista.com/what-it-means-when-he-doesnt-call/#comment-123 Mon, 19 Jun 2023 11:03:23 +0000 http://www.onesmartsista.com/?p=362#comment-123 In reply to onesmartsista.

Excellent reply! It’s so true women want closure but men often want the opportunity to come back at a later stage. Thank you

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By: Shay https://onesmartsista.com/what-it-means-when-he-doesnt-call/#comment-122 Mon, 19 Jun 2023 01:54:27 +0000 http://www.onesmartsista.com/?p=362#comment-122 In reply to Grace Mwanyiro.

An extreme change in communication can signal a red flag in a relationship. It’s a little difficult to gauge in your situation if there’s an issue, simply because your boyfriend is in the military. I’m not sure if he’s overseas or on base…he could just be busy. He could have also lost interest or is talking to someone else. I would have a conversation with him and express how you’re feeling and your expectations with communication going forth. If he doesn’t respond or change, I would move on. Good luck to you.

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By: Grace Mwanyiro https://onesmartsista.com/what-it-means-when-he-doesnt-call/#comment-121 Fri, 16 Jun 2023 16:29:48 +0000 http://www.onesmartsista.com/?p=362#comment-121 I have a boyfriend he’s in the military starting our relationship he used to call me everyday, before work and text but now it’s almost two years in our relationship the communication has gone down last week he came home for his break he started calling me we even met and had fun after we parted we talked and I thought we were okay. But then he didn’t call and I called and texted for three days and now he just texted, didn’t explain anything just said it’s fine as if I was just overreacting he didn’t even explain anything.

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By: Shay https://onesmartsista.com/what-it-means-when-he-doesnt-call/#comment-120 Wed, 12 Apr 2023 19:54:42 +0000 http://www.onesmartsista.com/?p=362#comment-120 In reply to Nnnn.

You can have any man you want, but do you want to? If you’re looking to put voodoo spells on men or force them to like you, that’s not what the ebook is for. A man has to have some attraction to you and should want you. If not, why would you want them? When I say don’t bother, then I’m telling a woman to have some self-respect about themselves. If he doesn’t want you – he doesn’t want you.

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By: Nnnn https://onesmartsista.com/what-it-means-when-he-doesnt-call/#comment-119 Wed, 12 Apr 2023 14:54:10 +0000 http://www.onesmartsista.com/?p=362#comment-119 I’m looking to the right column… it says you have an ebook that says “Make ANY Man Yours For Life” then I guess it doesn’t work because we’d be able to have our man that want and we love and isn’t calling us… because it says make ANY man devoted to you… but in this article you’re saying “eh, don’t bother with him he doesn’t want you” but your ebook says ANY man. Hmmm Mmmmmm K. (Cuz I’d like my man not anyone else but you’re saying eh, don’t bother move on.) A little contradictory.

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By: Shay https://onesmartsista.com/what-it-means-when-he-doesnt-call/#comment-118 Wed, 12 Apr 2023 02:03:27 +0000 http://www.onesmartsista.com/?p=362#comment-118 In reply to Mirrah.

It seems like he’s not interested or he’s involved with someone else. It’s also possible that he doesn’t know that you’re interested in him and that he may feel as if you’re wasting his time on the business front. If he thinks that you’re trying to get advice or something else related to business for free, he may not see the value in keeping in contact with you. You should call him and tell him that you’re interested in him beyond business and see how he responds. If he doesn’t respond favorably or not at all, move on.

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By: Shay https://onesmartsista.com/what-it-means-when-he-doesnt-call/#comment-117 Wed, 12 Apr 2023 02:00:18 +0000 http://www.onesmartsista.com/?p=362#comment-117 In reply to Bella.

Possibly or he’s waiting for you to call him. If your boyfriend used to call you every day and then he started calling you less, then it’s possible he’s lost interest. If you had an argument, then it’s likely you all need a few days to blow off some steam. Afterward, one of you will need to start the communication if you want your relationship to continue.

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